'If a lady proposes to a man, should she shoulder the financial responsibilities of the union?'

This twitter user asked an interesting question. Who pays for union if a girl proposes to the man. Who pays for the bride price, trad wedding, court/church wedding?

credit: Linda Ikeji's Blog http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/1/if-a-lady-proposes-to-a-man-should-she-shoulder-the-financial-responsibilities-of-the-union-2.html